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Instigator Blog: 5 Things That Keep Me Awake At Night

  • Genuine Chris Johnson · 1 year ago
    The path.

    I am on the path that I want to be on right now, and I want to stay on the path, but despite the fact that there are people like you, Fields, etc,

    ...there are always people that are telling you the path is elsewhere. And the amount of faith that you have to have is insane to make it in this business.

    Am I nuts?
  • Aaron Wood · 1 year ago
    The thing that keeps me up at night? Have I done everything possible to make my customers successful? I usually have done everything possible but I always do this to keep myself on my toes.
  • Stephanie · 1 year ago
    Stuff I haven't done - being a startup entrepreneur invariably means that a lot of things rely on me to get them done. I am gaining reliable staff slowly (refer your point 2), but there is the trust issue (another thing that keeps me awake).

    I've already had ideas stolen and staff (now ex-staff) try and set up their own businesses.

    Some days you wonder if it's worth it.
  • Vijay Goel, M.D. · 1 year ago
    Biggest thing for me is: Do I and each of my team members know what the 2 most important things each of us have to get done are in the short/medium/longer medium terms?

    There are so many choices and so many ways to waste time-- but letting the unimportant ones fall and getting the important steps for development/growth done-- this is what will make or kill my business's ability to storm the beaches of Normandy on our launch date.

    I find it somewhat ironic that my health as well has been on the backburner-- and my company's mission is to help consumers engage in their health choices...
  • Recycling Mike · 1 year ago
    What keeps me awake at night? It's the feeling that I haven't done enough during the day. I know it's unhealthy, and one could only do so much. Even when I'm already half-asleep, the feeling just comes, bam! and I'm fully awake looking at the sharp details of the things I failed to do during the day. I only get poised to go back to sleep once I've mapped out the steps I need to do in the morning.
  • Jian Chen · 1 year ago
    How to get more users to use my question and answer system, this is the #1 thing that keeps me up all night. Also, how to compete with Google in terms of the next generation search engine? It must be a search engine utilizing the mass wisdom and more user friendly as well.

    So, all puzzles me...No answer yet.
  • Alistair · 1 year ago
    I think my filters for Great Ideas have gone way up. If I'm not compelled to lose sleep over how awesome it is, then it's not that interesting. So, ironically, I'm losing sleep over what's cool enough to lose sleep over.

    That said -- I'm doing a lot of online stuff on various sites and at various events these days. Juggling all of that, and lacking any real feedback on how well it's going (if you don't count Google Analytics) is something to lose sleep over.

    Oh, and there's the disconnect between how great mornings feel (like newly bought school supplies) and how I didn't get to all the things on my list come nighttime. But I think all entrepreneurs feel that one.
  • Andy Strote · 1 year ago
    Gosh, so young and so earnest. Here are some suggestions for what should keep you up at night:

    1. Did I drink enough beer today?
    2. That steak I had for lunch - should it have been bigger?
    3. Is it worth planning now for a middle age crisis? If so, which red convertible should I buy? And what multiple of my salary should it cost?
    4. What etiquette is involved in going into a hard core bike shop and ordering a custom Harley?
    5. Eliot Spitzer and me - contrast and compare.

    Other than that, go for a good run before bed and get some sleep.
  • Scott Bradley · 1 year ago
    What keeps me up at night?

    -Exciting ideas that I continue to work on
    -The exciting times of new challenges that I am facing
    -Thinking about different ways to solve problems that I have
    -Sometimes...thinking about someone I am falling for
    -The thoughts about how fruitful my future will be
  • Troy Bingham - Lead Response M · 1 year ago
    Ha Ha! I feel your pain! I have a new born and no sleep as well. This is a good article but you left off gas prices. Other than that, you are right on.

    lrmguru.blogspot.com
  • Bill · 1 year ago
    1.Fear of writer's block
    2.Planning the next days To Do List
    3.Wishing I had got everything done that was on today's To Do List.
  • Mike Michalowicz · 1 year ago
    1. My wife, when she rolls over in bed and kicks me. She's a very active sleeper!
  • Ruth Ann Macklin · 1 year ago
    You won't getting anymore sleep when your son is a teenager! You'll be driving around town looking for his car when he is out past curfew.
  • Daniel · 1 year ago
    Thinking of ideas of how to make more money, lol.
  • John Gillett · 1 year ago
    My kids kept me up as babies, toddlers...and now as teens. Now that they're almost out of the proverbial nest I worry about the diintegration of freedom, jobs and integrity in America.
  • Lacey · 1 year ago
    I usually sleep pretty well at night -- I love my sleep! -- but I find the times that I'm kept awake is when I feel like I'm on the edge of something new. And with a startup, that can happen fairly often. Sometimes the thought of, "What might tomorrow bring?" is exciting / nerve-wracking enough to keep me up for hours. Great post.
  • RainMan · 1 year ago
    Thinking of ideas of how to make more money, that's good one Daniel i agree with you
  • Ernesto · 1 year ago
    When I have done everything possible but I always do this to keep myself on my toes.
  • Stuart · 1 year ago
    I think health is the most important one to be honest. Too many Entrepreneurs concentrate too much on making money and stressing about work that they run themselves into the ground and cannot enjoy the benefit of their work.
  • Julius · 1 year ago
    What keeps me up at night? blogwalking all night long...It keeps me up at night..:)
  • Cheryl P · 1 year ago
    Kids are still #1 for me....and my kids are grown. It seems that it doesn't matter how old they get, their problems still cause you worries.

    The 2nd for me is always business...and marketing is the #1 question. What should I do today, did the things did yesterday get results, etc.
  • Shamelle · 1 year ago
    Oh, your kids are adorable :-)

    For me, what mostly keeps me up at night are decisions! Big ones....

    Also, sometimes, if I watch a movie, TV Series or read book half way and go to sleep, I'll keep thinking about what might happen. That is of course if its really good!
  • Andrew F · 1 year ago
    Those are some cute kids!

    I feel your startup pains. I'm getting my solo law firm off the ground, so many similar things are keeping me awake at night as well.

    But it's loads of fun!! :)
  • Nolan · 1 year ago
    When my kids were babies and one of them woke up at night I would rock him or her in a rocking chair and sing in low voice. It worked like a charm. My guess is it is similar to the motion and sound combo that makes kids fall asleep when you drive around in a car. But they love to have you hug them and to hear your voice even better. So try a rocking chair, and practice that singing so you don't drive your wife crazy, ha ha. :)
  • Ragnar · 1 year ago
    Aww, cute kids. :)

    I can understand it's painful starting up new businesses, but in some cases it results in great wealth — so it's pretty exciting too.

    The fear of nightmares is what is keeping me away from sleep.
  • egi · 1 year ago
    internet always keep me awake at night :)
  • Peter · 1 year ago
    Cute pictures of the kids.
    What keeps me awake at night is thinking about how to better my situation all the time.
    Somtimes I can be awake for hours thinking about how to solve business / work problems in the most efficient mannor possible.. i guess this is what happens when ur a geek :)
  • Jimy Wong · 1 year ago
    Hi Ben,
    First thing first, you got cute kids. Just do what you like is the best way of life.
    Peter, you need time. Be the best and slowly. Look around you, don't ignore everything.
    All the best!!
  • Chad Gary - Youth Organization · 1 year ago
    My laptop keeps me awake at night. Very difficult to put it down sometimes.
  • Alicia Wills · 1 year ago
    My husband snoring keeps me up!
  • Tim · 1 year ago
    As a father of five, I feel your pain.

    Good list, and I'd like to comment on number four. Regular exercise in some form not only keeps you healthy, but also gives you energy, which you can then apply back to your business.

    My recommendation: bicycle riding or swimming, both great aerobic activities
  • Ben Yoskovitz · 1 year ago
    Thank you for all the comments. Seems I've struck a nerve with this post - and I'm far from the only one getting very little sleep at night!
  • Ron McDaniel · 1 year ago
    Don't worry Ben, it gets better between 7 and 9 - then they get hard to deal with again. :)

    Commenting on your Quick vs Rash comment - I just started a new endevor - http://virtualbuzzassistant.com - and I am coaching people though starting their own Virtual Buzz Assistant business. One person got completely hung up for over a week on whether they should open a PO Box first or file the papers for their LLC first.

    My advice to him was to accept that you will make mistakes, but most mistakes are better than wasting too much time trying not to make any mistakes. Fail forward.
  • Rumah Dijual · 1 year ago
    I think my insomnia keeps me awake at night. That's terrible.
  • Bonnie · 1 year ago
    Hi Ben,

    Totally understand. Been there, done that! It will get better, then it will get worse. Mine are grown and married. I miss staying up all night with them.

    Enjoy while you have them.
  • Chantal · 1 year ago
    You are so spot on with hiring good staff. After having five start up companies (some huge successes others miserable failures), I can honestly tell you that there is no better day than the day you realize you can go to lunch or take a day off and everything is running smoothly and money is flowing in the door.

    Your staff are what differentiates you from being a manager or a supervisor (baby sitter).
  • AJ James · 1 year ago
    1 thing that keeps me up at night is whatever my wife says before I go to sleep.

    She has a happy knack for dropping big news right before she falls sound asleep, leaving me wide awake and panicking.

    "goodnight honey, by the way I'm pregnant" - Snooze zzzzz

    "I think we should move to New Zealand" - Snooze zzzz
  • Bonnie · 1 year ago
    Keeping my employees busy - keeping enough work coming in!
  • DJ Carroll · 1 year ago
    I love the point about the rash decisions vs quick decisions.

    I am in my second year of running yard smart lawn care & landscaping and let me tell ya its tough trying to be mr nice and mr right all the time along with mr get it done

    Great PosT!
  • Kristin · 1 year ago
    Okay, so this is my first time visiting your blog, so hello! I randomly came across it and I really enjoy your writing. The pictures of your family are so cute.

    I've been working on starting my own business, and wow, I am always up all night too. haha
  • MorganLighter · 1 year ago
    Ben, you want to know what keeps me awake at night?
    Kids -no. Barking dogs - no. Indigestion - no. Prostate problems - no. My wife snoring - no.
    It's wondering how I could ever become as smart as you!
  • Rick · 1 year ago
    What keeps me up at night? For the last ten months - nothing. Prior to that about anything would keep me awake. Just thinking and worrying some. Then I decided to slow down, let some projects sit, not argue, and just be more laid back. Result? I fall asleep within fifteen minutes and if something wakes me I go right back to sleep, I don't set an alarm anymore yet I still wake up when I need to.
  • Martin · 1 year ago
    I can't work during the day so basically I only live during the night... this keeps me up..
  • Murthy Rao · 1 year ago
    when i achieve my dollar target per day I'll sleep without any worries.... Otherwise I'll awake at least thrice in a night.... now I'm earning 50$ per day.... unfortunately my target is 150$ per day.... ha ha ha....